My sister was touched by all of your kind words and thoughts, and asked me to thank you. So, here's a picture of us from a baby shower a couple of years ago. It's a rotten picture of me (on the left) but I think it's a rather typical picture of the two of us. We take turns leaning on each other, and have had spells where we lean together, but we're almost always smiling and laughing when we're together.
Happier days are coming.